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  • How to Use a Bullet Vibrator

    March 22, 2023 3 min read

    Image of different types of bullet vibrators, some are rechargeable, some are battery powered.

    What is a Bullet Vibrator?

    Generally a bullet vibe is a vibrator with sizes ranging from one large finger to about 6” to 7” in length. They’re designed to be used against the vulva but depending on the size, can be used inside the vagina also.

    A bullet vibe is simplistic in design. It often looks like a rocket ship. They come battery operated for those who are budget conscious or rechargeable. There are plenty of rechargeable bullet vibrators made for affordability as well as luxury.

    But make no mistake, not all luxury is expensive.

    The vibrator can be used in the vagina, but its main intention is to stimulate the vulva with marketing messages pinpointed at the clitoris.

    We highly suggest NEVER to use a bullet vibrator inside the butt. Because most don’t have a flared base, it will get sucked up into a person’s gut and cause some damage to it.

    How to Use a Bullet Vibrator

    The very first step to owning and using a vibrator is to wash it with warm water and mild unscented soap. Although your product is new, many hands have touched it as it was being made. Keep in mind this should only be done if your vibrator is waterproof.

    The second step is to fully charge the vibrator if it has a rechargeable battery.

    The third step is to get familiar with the vibrator inside your hand. Play with the settings and get to know each one including the intensity levels before ever putting it against your vulva.

    The fourth step is to try it out! It’s important to ALWAYS START AT THE LOWEST SETTING FIRST.

    The final step is to start playing with it and discovering what turns you on and gets you off.

    It’s important to understand the dialogue you're playing in your head while using the product solo. Use it alone first before introducing it in partner play.

    We say that because you do need to get familiar with what feels good for you, what doesn’t and which settings had the biggest impact.

    Remember, the vulva has a high concentration of nerve endings and tracing the vibrator all around, up and down from the top of your pelvis down to your anal cavity, just passed the vaginal opening will help you cum harder. You’re working on stroking every part of your vulva. Don’t just think it’s for the clitoris.

    Another way to discover erogenous zones with a vibrator is to play with it against your nipples, collar bone, inner and outer thighs, behind your knees, and so much more.

    You’ll learn what turns you on and feels good by helping yourself discover your body through vibrations and touch.

     

     

    Positions to Try…

    Any Work!

    Standing, laying on your back, in doggy position, on your side.

    No one body is the same, try a vibrator in as many positions as you’d like and discover which one fits to your liking.

    Most will attempt it on their back with their knees up first. Do you and play!

    Introducing a Vibrator to Partner Play

    At this point you would have already played and introduced yourself to the vibrator.

    Bring it into partner play by showing your partner what you’ve learned about your body. They’ll be turned on watching you play with yourself.

    Then let them take control of your pleasure.

    Remember we mentioned the dialogue in your head while you were playing with yourself during your pleasure discovery?

    It’s time to use that dialogue out loud.

    Tell your partner what you like and don’t like, direct them and tell them where to go and how to do it.

    This is where and how a vibrator liberates you, your speech and your sexual desires.

    Keep in mind you can make this as fun for your partner as for yourself.

    If your partner is a penis owner, here are some ways a penis owner can also enjoy a vibrator:

    Along the frenulum, the shaft, and the gooch.

    The frenulum is that part of the penis located right where the head and the shaft combine. You’ll notice a thin line of skin that connects one to the other.

    We all have one under our tongues also!

    For the shaft, starting at the base, gently slide the tip of the vibrator up until the frenulum and down. With repetition, you’re bound to have multiple orgasms.

    You’re also welcome to try vibrations on the head of a penis.

    Just be really gentle and always start at the lowest setting first.

    You can also tease the gooch, the area between the anus and testes. Try the rumbly side or the tip and see how you like it.

    Works wonders to use during oral play as well.

    No matter what body part your partner has, a vibrator can work for ANY BODY.